The Tantrum Toolkit:

How to handle toddler meltdowns without losing your sh*t

you love your toddler deeply.
but lately, the screaming, hitting, flailing-on-the-floor meltdowns are becoming a daily storm.

you find yourself losing your patience.
feeling shame creep in.
wondering if you’re messing it all up.

and then, after bedtime… you’re up googling:

“why does my toddler freak out over nothing?”
“how to be a gentle parent when i’m triggered”
“is my kid normal?”

you’re not alone. and you’re not doing it wrong.
you just haven’t been given a way that actually works.

this is that way.

The Tantrum Toolkit is your go-to for understanding and responding to toddler tantrums—through the lens of brain development, emotional intelligence, and real-life modern motherhood.

because you deserve more than “just stay calm.”
you deserve to understand your child, trust yourself, and feel emotionally steady—even when they’re melting down in the middle of Target.

✨ what you’ll walk away with:

  • a clear understanding of what’s happening inside your toddler’s brain during big feelings (finally, the “why” behind the chaos)

  • practical, emotionally intelligent strategies for handling tantrums without yelling, freezing, or giving in

  • tools to support your own nervous system regulation so you can lead with love—even when you’re touched out and exhausted

  • a grounded, research-backed way to break the generational patterns you were handed

  • the confidence to stop second-guessing and start parenting in alignment with your values

inside the course

4 self-paced modules delivered in simple, short video lessons designed for busy mamas

    • why your toddler melts down over “nothing” and what’s really going on in their brain

    • the reason they act worse with you—and how that means you’re their safe place

    • how to know if it’s a tantrum or a true emotional overload

    • what you can do to help them actually learn emotional skills (without overexplaining everything)

    • what to do when your toddler is screaming, hitting, or kicking at home and in public

    • what to say when they’re losing it—and how to keep your voice calm when you feel anything but

    • how to stop reacting the way you swore you wouldn’t

    • what works better than ignoring or giving in (even when you're exhausted)

    • how to stop feeling guilty for saying no and start feeling confident in your boundaries

    • what to do when you’ve been inconsistent and want to reset

    • how to stay firm when they’re screaming “you’re mean!” or falling apart

    • how to hold a limit without yelling, overexplaining, or second-guessing yourself

    • why you keep snapping even when you want to be gentle—and how to stop

    • nervous system tools you can use in real life (even when they’re climbing on you)

    • how to repair with your toddler when you mess up (and stop spiraling in guilt)

    • how to actually support yourself while raising an emotionally healthy kid

you’ll also get:

  • reflection workbook pages to apply what you're learning right away

  • bonus resource list of our favorite books + podcast episodes

  • exclusive (and free) access to The 3-Week Boundary Reset course

mama, you’ll love this if:

  • your toddler is between 18 months and 3 years

  • you’re exhausted from trying to “stay calm” without knowing how

  • you’re craving a perspective that’s both practical and emotionally intelligent

  • you want to raise an emotionally healthy child and grow while doing it

  • you’re ready for support that actually makes sense

format:

  • instant access to all 4 modules

  • watch anytime, at your own pace

  • short videos, real examples, and actionable tools

the investment:

$47 launch price (normally $150)

  • includes free access to the 3-Week Boundary Reset Course and a discount code for our full signature course (coming soon!)

ready to lead tantrums with confidence?

this isn’t about being the perfect parent.
it’s about becoming the kind of mama who knows what’s happening underneath—and shows up with compassion, clarity, and emotional steadiness.

you don’t have to guess anymore.
you don’t have to yell anymore.
you don’t have to do this alone.