Macky’s Potty Party!
This plan scaffolds her step by step from pooping in a pull-up while standing in the bathroom to confidently pooping on the potty without a pull-up.
Key Adjustments for Macky:
No more pooping outside the bathroom. She can stand or sit, but all pooping happens in the Potty Party Room (downstairs half-bathroom).
Pull-ups are only for pooping and are kept in a basket inside the bathroom.
Macky has three poop times per day (based on her body’s natural schedule).
She earns stars at each poop time based on effort and participation.
Step 1: Pooping in the Bathroom
Goal: Move all pooping to the Potty Party Room, but let Macky choose how.
How to Set It Up:
✔ Decorate the bathroom to make it fun
“Macky’s Potty Party!” sign on the door.
Big Kid Poop Poster: “Poop Goes in the Potty!”
Star Chart on the wall to track her progress.
Potty Basket with special books, toys, and bubbles (only for potty time).
✔ Give her two options for pooping:
Stand in the bathroom while pooping in a pull-up.
Sit on the little potty or big potty while wearing a pull-up.
✔ Three daily poop times to earn stars
Morning (30-45 minutes after waking up)
After breakfast or lunch
Before bath/bedtime
What NOT to Do:
✖ No more pooping outside the bathroom (gently remind her).
✖ No asking, “Do you need to poop?” Just say, “It’s Poop Party time!”
✖ No forcing her to sit—standing in the bathroom still counts as progress!
How Macky Earns a Star:
⭐ Pooping in the bathroom (standing or sitting).
⭐ Using her Potty Basket items while she poops.
⭐ Pooping during one of her three poop times.
First Reward (5 Stars Earned):
Step 2: Pooping While Sitting on the Potty in a Pull-Up
Goal: Get Macky used to sitting while pooping in her pull-up.
How to Encourage It:
✔ Keep letting her choose where to sit—little potty, big potty, or standing.
✔ Offer a fun Potty Basket item while she sits.
✔ Make sitting a normal part of poop time (“You can sit while you play with bubbles!”).
What NOT to Do:
✖ Don’t rush this step—if she resists, let her stand a little longer before trying again.
✖ No pressure to remove the pull-up yet.
How Macky Earns a Star:
⭐ Sitting on the potty while pooping in a pull-up.
⭐ Pooping during one of her three poop times.
⭐ Trying to stay seated for at least 2 minutes.
Second Reward (7 Stars Earned):
Step 3: Pooping Directly in the Potty
Goal: Transition Macky to pooping without a pull-up on the potty.
How to Encourage It:
✔ Offer, “Do you want to try without your pull-up today?”
✔ Let her flush her poop and say goodbye (many kids love this part!).
✔ Keep the potty fun and routine-based.
What NOT to Do:
✖ No forcing—if she hesitates, let her go back to the "sitting pull-up" for a few more days.
✖ No over-celebrating—keep it low-key and normal.
How Macky Earns a Star:
⭐ Pooping in the potty without a pull-up.
⭐ Staying seated and relaxed while pooping.
⭐ Pooping during one of her three poop times.
Final Reward (10 Stars Earned): 🎉 Macky’s Potty Party Celebration! 🎉
A special outing (ice cream, zoo, a favorite place she picks!).
Macky’s Daily Poop Routine
Three Poop Party Times Each Day
Morning (30-45 min after waking up) → Gentle sit/stand option.
After breakfast or lunch → Poop basket & potty time.
Before bath/bedtime → Final poop attempt before sleep.
Action Step for You (Parents):
Gently guide her to the potty at these times—no asking if she needs to go.
Keep Poop Party Time relaxed, playful, and stress-free.
Reward effort, not just results.
Parent Reminders
✔ Poop happens in the bathroom, but she chooses how.
✔ No pressure, no forcing. If she resists, stick to the step she’s on and try again later.
✔ Celebrate effort, not just results.
✔ Poop time = fun time. Keep it playful & routine-based.
How to Support Macky Without Pushing
✔ Use “When-Then” Statements
“When you poop in the potty, then you can flush and say goodbye to it.”
“When you’re done, then we’ll wash hands and do a silly dance.”
✔ Offer Control, Not Demands
“Do you want to sit on the big potty or the little potty?”
“Do you want your diaper tight or loose today?”
✔ Let Her Have Privacy if She Wants
Some kids prefer to poop alone—ask if she wants you to stay or step out.
✔ Keep It Playful and Fun
Use her Potty Basket to make sitting time relaxing.
Blow bubbles while she sits—this actually helps her relax her pelvic muscles.
✔ Praise Effort, Not Just Success
“I love that you sat on the potty!”
“You tried something new today—awesome!”